Some gestures offer comfort more quietly than words. Our Anthurium ‘Lilli’ in a stylish Vibes pot, paired with a beautifully scented candle from our handmade botanical range poured in a golden tin, makes a gentle, lasting sympathy gift — calm, soothing and full of quiet presence.
The Anthurium ‘Lilli’, with its soft blush-pink spathes rising above glossy heart-shaped leaves, brings a sense of stillness to the spaces it rests in. Its blooms last for many weeks, offering steady colour and calm at a time when the world can feel heavy and uncertain. There is something grounding in its quiet beauty — a small reminder that life continues gently, even in moments of deep pause.
The botanical candle adds a warm, comforting light and a softly balanced fragrance. Together, they create a peaceful moment of reflection — a space to breathe, remember and feel supported. It’s a thoughtful alternative to cut flowers, offering something that endures beyond the first days of grief.
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Size
Plant: Supplied in its nursery pot, presented in a Vibes pot.
Candle: 75 g gold tin, natural soy wax for a clean, even burn.
Native habitat and growth pattern
In its natural home beneath the rainforest canopy of Central and South America, the Anthurium grows steadily in soft, filtered light. Its pink “flowers” — actually protective spathes — shelter small blossoms along the spadix. This slow, steady rhythm of growth lends the plant a quiet, contemplative presence, making it especially comforting during difficult times.
Styling at home
The Vibes pot’s gentle, understated style suits calm corners, bedside tables or softly lit living rooms. The Anthurium’s refined shape and lasting colour bring a sense of peace, while the candle’s glow creates a warm, reflective atmosphere — a small sanctuary in a time of loss.
Care requirements
Place in bright, indirect light. Keep the compost lightly moist, allowing the top few centimetres to dry between waterings. Avoid cold draughts. Feed monthly in spring and summer with Happy Houseplants Organic Tropical Plant Food to support healthy growth and long-lasting blooms.
Why choose this sympathy gift
Because living things offer quiet hope. This Anthurium and candle pairing brings comfort, warmth and gentle continuity — a thoughtful way to show care when words may feel insufficient.
Interesting facts
The Anthurium’s pink spathe is a modified leaf designed to protect its tiny blooms.
Anthuriums are often associated with warmth, kindness and remembrance.
Each bloom lasts for weeks, offering steady colour and calm during difficult times.
FAQs
Is this a good sympathy gift?
Yes — it’s thoughtful, lasting and gently comforting, ideal for sending warmth and support.
What does the candle smell like?
A soft, natural botanical fragrance from our handmade range — warm, balanced and soothing.
Is the plant pet safe?
No — Anthuriums aren’t pet-friendly and can cause irritation if chewed. It’s best to keep them out of reach of curious cats, dogs and young children.
Explore more
Looking for more shade-loving wonders? Browse our full Pet Friendly Plants or Tropical Indoor Plants collection. For care guides and styling inspiration, visit the Happy Houseplants blog—the UK’s leading indoor houseplant resource.
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